Sunday, December 27, 2009

Love Myths Busted

I read this article written by a psychologist, in a newspaper and I felt, "How true it is?"
Now don’t ask me why I feel it is true.  

I have added few sentences of my own. Everything was not copied :D

1. True Love happens only ones: Do you feel so??? Then you are wrong. There is nothing like "True love". "Love" itself is "true". Even your 1st crush when you were in 10th is true love, because you experienced it.
2. You can only love one person at a time: I know many will not agree to this point, but it is absolutely false. Human heart is capable of loving many people at the same time - simultaneously and romantically.
3. Marry everyone you love: You know this is impossible. Now if you think marrying any one you love, then it’s high time you come out of the "fairy tale" or "happily ever after" kind of world. Love is not enough to sustain a marriage.
4. True love lasts forever: This is a joke. After reading this, I know people might have changed their ideas about me, but truth is always bitter. Love, like all emotions is subject to birth, growth and death. Just because love lasts longer for some, it does not make it 'truer' than which fades away over the years.
5. First love is the 'real' love: First love is usually immature. We fancy just few facets of a person without looking at the big picture.
6. Infatuation is Love: Yup. There is no difference between infatuation and love. Often when we have our first crushes, we brush it off as "mere infatuations” because if we were to accept that we "fall in love" so often, we wouldn’t think too well about ourselves.

I couldn't disagree to the points highlighted by then psychologist, though I cannot say I believe in it 100% as I haven't experienced everything written above :)

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