Saturday, September 19, 2009

Promises are meant to be broken!!!

The person who coined this phrase was heartless!!!!
I still don’t understand how people break their promises. When you promise something to someone, that something should be the top priority work. Well if we look the other way, I think I am wrong. People never promise at all, they just say "I promise", but not from the core of their heart. If heart and all in this sentence looks very filmy, then we can say that they do not have commitment to keep up their words.


"I promise". It’s just two words, so easy to tell... So hard to keep it up.
If you casually ask a person who promised you something that, "why didn’t you keep up your promise?” they just throw their hands in the air and wave it round like they just don’t care. At that moment one should promise themselves that if they get a chance they'll hit that person black and blue.


If you angrily go and ask a person who promised u something that, "why didn’t you keep up your promise?” they either give you the right reasons, which are always acceptable, but the worst they can do is "I don’t have any other work, other than keeping up your promises???"
When this sentence comes out, I think one should hit themselves black and blue, for taking this stupid step in their life, not about making friendship with that person, but believing so much in that person.


These days, I don't take risks in my life by expecting things which can't happen, or waiting for someone.
Most importantly I never ask anyone to promise anything, because nothing can hurt me more than someone breaking my promise. There are few people on this earth (some of your so called friends), who come forward and promise us that they'll do this and that. One can’t stop them from promising. Sometimes scared of the consequences one can ask them not to promise anything which they can't keep up, but few people never listen to others.I don’t know what one should say about these kinds of friends. Because no doubt they will make you believe that they have given a promise which they will never break and snap there goes the promise.


One thing is true, it never hurts the person who breaks it, but one can never imagine the pain of the other person.


Many a times I thought of giving them a taste of their own medicine, but then I thought “why make the other person go through that pain?” Maybe for such people one should prioritize between their friendship and their promise. Everything which happens in life is learning. I have learnt something and wish you people also too know it and never break a promise or at least never make a promise.

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